Monday, September 14, 2015

love is real.

You know how people often say that relationships take so much work?

Can I just take a moment to set the record straight? So not true. I might be in a magical situation but boyfriend and I's relationship has never been work. Actually, I'm definitely in a magical situation. Regardless, world, it exists! It's not always work. Or hard. Or complicated. Or...well anything bad at all. Sure, we've had a few arguments and a couple tough times. None of that is constant and none of that takes work. We weather the storms together, always. I choose this man. Every single day. To continue click below...

He's my rock. I tell him everything. The stupid, silly, important, loving, not-so-loving, my bad side, my great side, intimate, embarrassing. He makes me better. He appreciates me and makes me feel great about being me every day. It is possible. The kind of love that makes the bad day worth getting out of bed for, as long as I get a morning kiss and mid-day text. Life is so good in love. We play. We laugh. We plan. We cook and talk. We argue and snuggle up for some f.r.i.e.n.d.s. There is so much joy. Whatever work I have to do today, none of it is done in my relationship. And I'm so thankful.

When you find love that's sustaining, that's not work, hold on to it and cherish it like your last breath. It's not common and its so hard to find. But if you can hold out for the best you guys. I promise you, it's so worth it.

Cheesy, yes. But, hey! I love it:
Samantha: Relationships aren't just about being happy. I mean, how often are you happy in your relationship?
Charlotte: Every day.
Samantha: Every day?
Charlotte: Well, not all day every day but yes, every day.

PS: Did you see those two handsome dudes? That's my family. That's love. And its so so real :)